Is it bad to come out as trans*, then recant because you've realized that's not who you are? I'm terrified everyone will think I'm a poser, but I sincerely thought I was, and now I've realized I am not. What do you think?
Anonymous

I think it’s okay.

I had a similar experience. I honestly thought I was trans* from when I was 8 til I was 12, and I then felt I was a girl. If you did include all those times, I could be considered something like ftmtftq.

But more importantly, gender and sexuality are fluid. They change; so it was not a phase, it was just gender fluidity. The only thing that makes you who you are is what you want to be.

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